First Date Magic for Women
© Bob Grant
At least once a month one of my clients comes into my office upset about how her date went the previous weekend. Either she feels she did something wrong or worries that the guy didn't seem to be too interested in her.
For the next 45 minutes we dissect the evening in question and I offer suggestions on how to salvage a second date or I congratulate her on discovering that he wasn't worth another chance.
Many times though the problem lies with my client not understanding the purpose of a first date. Too often women (and men) concentrate on such things has compatibility, attraction and past relationship history.
All of these things are important but not for a first encounter. They are too in-depth for a casual get-to-know-you conversation.
The only thing a woman really needs to be concerned with is conveying her femininity. This is the easiest and most reliable way toward making a good first impression.
The three keys to a great first date are; wear a dress, smile often and allow him to speak first at the start of the date. Those three things will make him feel masculine and he will naturally find you more attractive because the first date is about being a girl, not revealing everything about yourself.
If those suggestions seem silly or sexist then I am afraid you don't understand men. Men like women in dresses because it radiates softness making a man want to hold and cuddle her.
Smiling at him always makes him feel more self assured. Letting him speak first conveys respect which is every man's greatest desire, even more than being loved. Show him that you have the ability to be the woman he has fantasized about and he will beg you for another date.
Once you have gone out 3 or more times then you are free to let him get to know you has an individual. Since you have shown him that you are every bit a woman, he will be much more motivated to get to know you as a person.
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Bob Grant, The Relationship Doctor is the author of the best-selling book, The Woman Men Adore
and Never Want to Leave. His coaching firm has been helping women achieve the relationship of their dreams throughout the United States and World. In addition he has published a Free Report entitled How to be Irresistible to Men. You may learn more by visiting him at www.relationshipheadquarters.com.
Copyright by Bob Grant, L.P.C. 2004-2006 All rights reserved. This article may be copied and distributed provided that no alterations are made and all copyright information is included.
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